McCoy, Tootie

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Catherine "Tootie" McCoy
Date Of Birth:May 10, 1918
Date Of Death:September 28, 2011
Service Date:Saturday, October 1, 2011 at 10:30am

Catherine "Tootie" Agnes McCoy, 93, of Manhattan, passed away Wednesday, September 28th, at Mercy Regional Health Center.  Catherine was born in Flush, Kansas on May 10, 1918, a daughter of the late Angeline (O'Shea) and Julius  Heptig. 

On May 28, 1945 at Flush, KS she married Robert L McCoy, who died on Nov. 22, 1985, they were the former owners of the Lakeview Tavern, which is now the Little Grill.  Tootie had lived on a farm north of Manhattan for over 66 years.  She was a member of Seven Dolors Catholic Church in Manhattan, a 1937 graduate of Flush High School, Flush, Kansas and from Mt. St. Scholastica College in Atchison, where she received her teaching certificate.  After graduation she taught in a 1 room school house until 1945 in Pottawatomie County, she volunteered at Mercy Regional Health Center for over 25 years, retiring in 2011, the longest on record of over 8000 hours. She loved her family and church above all else, but the best description of her in two words was that she was "Catholic and Irish"

Catherine is  survived by a daughter, Patricia Rusthstrom and husband Ron, of Downs; grandsons, Michael L. Ruthstrom of Manhattan and Jacob B. and wife Kristin Ruthstrom of Kansas City, Missouri; great granddaughter, Faith L. Rusthstrom of Downs, Kansas along with many nieces & nephews.  She is preceded in death by her parents, husband, Robert, brothers Tom, Pat and Bill Heptig and sister Mary Winter.

Visitation will be at Irvin-Parkview Funeral Home on Friday from 8:00am to 8:00pm, with a vigil service at 7:00pm.   A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30am on Saturday, October 1st at the Seven Dolors Catholic Church, Manhattan.  Interment will follow at St. Patrick's Cemetery, Manhattan.

The family request memorial donations to the Manhattan Catholic Schools.




  • From: Joyce Elliott (Cederberg)
    Location:United States

    Patty, Sorry to hear of your mother Tootie's death. I just saw her getting groceries a week or so ago. I saw her quite often at Dillons. I was always amazed that she was still able to drive. Probably that Catholic and Irish spunk. I have many memmories of her at the bar and playing pool for many years on her team. She always stood up for what she believed in. She was a great lady and you were blessed to have her as your mother. I will miss seeing her. With Sympathy, Joyce Elliott


  • From: Trisha  Capps (Willyard)
    Location:St. Louis, MO

    I am so sorry for your loss. We always called her Aunt Tootie, though our Great Aunt. She had an amazing grace to her and always had a smile on her face. She attended my brother Rodney's funeral in July and she was the same "Aunt Tootie" with smiles and spunk! She was loved by all and her memory will always be with us. You all are in our prayers! Love, Trisha Capps (Willyard)


  • From: Wilma Ozias
    Location:Downs

    I am so sorry about the loss of your mother and grandmother. She was such a sweet, but strong person. She was loved by her family and friends, and she loved you all very much. God bless you all as you continue on in the wonderful heritage that she has left behind. I'm sure she is now enjoying her eternal rewards in the love and sunshine of heaven! With love, sympathy and prayers, Wilma O


  • From: Vienna Janis
    Location:Downs

    Patty and Family Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. I am glad Faith got to see Great Grandma Tootie one last time. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by all who knew her. Michael my heart goes out to you too. Vee and family


  • From: Jackie Cunningham Bell
    Location:Manhattan, KS

    Patty and Family I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed running in to your Mother at Dillons. I was so grateful for her wonderful friendship with my Mother, Stella Noland....they had many laughs and conversations together. God Bless You All!!


  • From: Marie Ward
    Location:Manhattan, KS 66502

    Patty and Family: I wish to extend my prayers and sympathy in the loss of your Mother and Grandmother, Tootie. I didn't think it had been too long ago since I had last seen her and from the other condolences I'm more sure now. I didn't look at the paper until evening and don't drive after dark so, therefore, didn't even make it to the funeral home. I have a previous commitment for Saturday morning and I am not sure I am going to make it now either. Forgot all about the ballgame traffic, etc. You will be in my thoughts and prayers throughout the morning though. I'm happy you were able to have her for so many years. My mother passed on at 70 in 1968 and I still miss her at times. May peace be with you and yours! Marie (Weinman) Ward